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"Everyone has a special purpose, a special talent or gift to give to others, and it is your duty to discover what it is. Your special talent is God's gift to you. What you do with your talent is your gift to God." Gautama Chopra, Child of the Dawn: A Magical Journey of Awakening

One of the biggest social movements of our time is society's search for meaning. Books on spirituality, soul, and personal growth are continually popping up on bestseller lists. The Internet is filling with similar sites and discussion groups. Numerous surveys show that the vast majority of people in almost every society in the world believe in some higher power. Conferences on spirituality in the workplace and soulful leadership have become regular events attracting thousands of meaning seekers.

The U.S. philosopher and poet, George Santayana, once said, "There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval." For many years I helped coach our son Chris' baseball team. One warm June evening we were driving home from a game. We had the windows down and sunroof open as we listened to the world's greatest baseball team — the Toronto Blue Jays — beating up the Yankees again. Chris seemed to be off in another world. Suddenly he turned to me with wonderment in voice and said, "Dad, do you ever have those seconds when it just clicks in your head that everything is perfect?" I thought for a minute and then replied, "Not as often as I used to. I've become too busy reaching for the future to enjoy the moment."

Life is a limited time offer. Too often our "dash" becomes a mad dash. We rush around trying to do and have it all. We become human doings rather than human beings. We provide for our bodily needs while starving our souls. We lose sight of what really matters. We become truer to our ego than our soul. Artists, writers, and performers often talk about finding their voice. Their art becomes an expression of that inner self. The people with the deepest and most meaningful lives are those who have found and use their inner voice. Their life sings from their soul. The ancient Roman poet, Horace, poses a core being question, "Why do you hasten to remove anything which hurts your eye, while if something affects your soul you postpone the cure until next year?"

Our work is a way that we can be true to our souls. Toward the end of his life, impressionistic painter Auguste Renoir had severe arthritis in his hands. But his voice wouldn't be silenced that easily. To continue expressing himself through his painting, he had his brushes strapped to his wrists. A friend asked why he imposed such pain and inconvenience upon himself. Without hesitation, Renoir answered, "The pain is momentary, but the art will last."

Regardless of how humble or prestigious society may consider what we do, our work should be a key means of finding and expressing our voice. In giving a Labor Day speech just after the turn of the 20th century, the U.S. president, Theodore Roosevelt declared, "Far and away the best prize that life offers is the chance to work hard at work worth doing."

Our work is part of our dash. If it's just a job that I do half heartedly and half well, I make myself miserable and starve my soul. My inner voice develops laryngitis if I am in a job I hate (or just tolerate) and don't take pride in the quality of what I do. When our work is part of a deeper life calling we put our heart into it. Our work becomes our contribution to making this team, this organization, and this world just a little better because we passed this way. That's when what we do becomes a meaningful expression of who we are.

Jim Clemmer’s practical leadership books, keynote presentations, workshops, and team retreats have helped hundreds of thousands of people worldwide improve personal, team, and organizational leadership. Visit his web site, http://jimclemmer.com/, for a huge selection of free practical resources including nearly 300 articles, dozens of video clips, team assessments, leadership newsletter, Improvement Points service, and popular leadership blog. Jim's five international bestselling books include The VIP Strategy, Firing on All Cylinders, Pathways to Performance, Growing the Distance, and The Leader's Digest. His latest book is Moose on the Table: A Novel Approach to Communications @ Work.






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Bruno  - Maintenance Supervisor   |192.75.48.xxx |2009-04-01 15:24:41
Thanks for the perspective. We need to take time to calm our noisy minds and feel the life within us. I like what Santayana said "There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy the interval." Only when we have perspective can we find our purpose and gift to the world.
Ravi Tangri  - Perhaps this is the opportunity in this time     |24.137.88.xxx |2009-03-27 14:47:56
Hi, Jim. I really appreciate you taking the time to focus on this. And perhaps the opportunity in these times is for us to come to this place.

The search for meaning is something that hungers in everyone, and I think the 'mad dash', as you put it, has been way for many to avoid following that path.

To search for meaning implies that we have not connected with our inner sense of purpose. Few are lucky enough to be born with - and maintain - a strong connection to their inner sense of purpose. That means that you have to start by looking inside. Without a clear connection to yourself and your inner sense of self and purpose, that look can be very scary, and I think many people avoid going there by going outside to accomplish things in the hope that those things will fill the emptiness inside.

And it doesn't.

So people do more and acquire more, and that emptiness is still inside. You can't really escape it.

This time that we're going through is different from other recessions we've had. In the past, people often just retreated into fear and hunkered down, and then got back into the 'mad dash' when the coast was clear.

I can't quite put my finger on it, but something's changed. The sense I'm getting is that people are realizing, at some deep level, that what they've been doing just isn't working. Just as global warming has reached a point where we have to turn things around, so too has our starvation of our souls. It just can't go on the way it's been going on - that you can't just hunker down and get ready for the mad dash again.

I'm sensing that there is a growing openness to explore new ways, to start to look inside, no matter how scary it may seem.

Maybe the pain of going forward has finally grown beyond the pain of going into and through the emptiness within.

Only by fully connecting with our inner sense of self, our inner sense of purpose, can we fully do all we are able to make a difference in this world, and I think we, as a race, are ready.

I'm optimistic.

Thanks again, Jim, for bringing attention to this work. It's so important today.

Ravi
Michael Darmody  - Principal     |74.210.104.xxx |2009-03-27 14:51:00
Jim,

Just a quick note to let you know how far-reaching your work can be.

I have followed your work for awhile now, and actually modelled my own start-up leadership development business after yours (writing, speaking, workshops etc.)so you've been very helpful to me in that regard without even knowing it.

This morning, I was having one of those "self-doubt" days, when I opened my email and read True to Our Souls; it reminded me why I embarked on this work in the first place, and strengthened my resolve. Serendipitous!

I then emailed it to my son Liam, who's traveling around Europe trying to find his true path, and I know it will help calm his career anxiety.

It's quite apparent from your books and articles that you do your work from the soul, and while I'm sure you have a well-deserved, prosperous business, you can feel assured that what you send out into cyberspace has a beneficial and sometimes powerful impact on many people who may never meet you. A wonderful ripple effect!

Thanks for that.
Linda Morelli  - Workplace Environment Analyst   |56.0.103.xxx |2009-03-25 14:53:38
Jim,

As someone who has spent the better part of my career trying to help employees improve their work environment and work quality of life, as well as being someone who believes following our purpose is the core element in finding true happiness in our work I want you to know that your article "True to our Souls" was one of the best I've read. I have always loved your newsletter and the articles have always proved timely but this one speaks to a less spoken about principle that is at work in our lives whether we recognize it or not. As I approach retirement one week away this article has validated my decision to move forward rather than replace a fulfilling job that has just been abolished with a job that will maintain my salary but would have no value passion or joy. After spending many years in the beginning of my career doing a job for a paycheck and then finding my passion which brought fulfillment, value and inspiration daily I realized I cannot go backwards. Instead I must find the courage to follow my heart, to continue to dare to insist on a coninuation of fulfilling what I've come to believe is my life's purpose and in doing so to know the kind of soul satisfaction that is only possible when we are true to ourselves. Thank you for reminding me that I am on the right track. No matter what the future brings for me I hope to never forget again that while my belief may not be in vogue with the masses it is a belief that was hard won and once experienced can never be easily ignored again. Thank you again for all your great work!!
Gregory Knight  - Department Head, Laboratory Services, U.S. Navy   |74.178.166.xxx |2009-03-14 01:46:54
I have enjoyed many of your writings, but "True to Our Souls" is so timely, I had to write to you. The article is an inspiration (especially the opening quote by Gautama Chopra) to me personally as I near retirement and look forward to a different life than I have lead over the last two decades. But more than that the article provides thought provoking seeds that I want to plant and nurture in the hearts and minds of a few personnel in my department. I call this a "divine intervention"...there are no coincidences. Thank you and keep up your blessed mission in life.
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