The Real Me
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Growing The Distance

Growing the DistanceWhether we’re in the boardroom or the mailroom, all of us need to be leaders.

A leader isn’t just appointed; a leader makes things happen. A leader takes action. A leader doesn’t say something must be done about this, a leader does something about it. Leadership is a verb, not a noun.

Leadership is action, not a position. Leadership is defined by what we do, not the role we are in. We all need to need to be leaders, regardless of our formal roles in the family, community, or workplace.
 


1-Not True at All    3-Somewhat True    5-Very True

  1. I often resist peer pressure and take a stand for what I feel is right.
  2. I usually recognize which emotions I am feeling and why.
  3. I generally see the connections between what I am feeling and what I think, say, and do.
  4. I have developed my own unique style and approach.
  5. I tend to let my actions speak louder than my words.
  6. I have strong beliefs and convictions that I act upon, regardless of what others think.
  7. I spend time reflecting upon and assessing my likes/dislikes, strengths/weaknesses, and personal style.
  8. People trust my word and consider me almost obsessive about my honesty and integrity.
  9. I clearly know my core values and beliefs, and remain steadfastly true to them.
  10. I pass up projects, promotions, or other opportunities that don’t really fit me or my values.
  11. My reputation, personality, and character are one and the same.
  12. I am very comfortable with who I am.
Score
12 - 29 points or lower – Get to know and love yourself. Live the life you (not others) want to live.
30 - 44 points – Keep striving to be real.
45 - 60 points – You’re being true to yourself.
 
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